The Landing

“Your group won’t remember everything from the discussion each week.  If they only remember one thing, what should it be?” They won’t remember Try all you like, but your group won’t remember everything you discuss together each week. But that’s not something to lose sleep over – instead, leverage it for a positive outcome.   Determine the landing Imagine you are the pilot of a plane taking the passengers to a specific destination each week. What is that destination?  Where do you plan to “land the plane”? Although you may cover plenty of distance with your group during a particular…

Twisted Words

“As a Small Group Leader, it is important to do the legwork ahead of time in order to make sure you are not twisting God’s words out of context.”   Twisted Words No one likes when their words are taken out of context.  With just a small tweak, someone can change what you said into something you never intended.  Think about this… as a Small Group Leader, you handle God’s words on a regular basis. If you are not careful, you can easily inject your own personal bias or interpretation.  Whether accidental or deliberate, it is a serious mistake to…

6 Basic Tips for Preparing and Asking Good Discussion Questions

[su_quote]Think of ways to help your group discover on their own.[/su_quote] Guided discussion takes careful preparation.  It is necessary to study deep enough for you to personally understand the passage; but it is important to press on further to think of ways to help your group discover on their own. Here are six basic tips to help your small group get the most out of the discussion.   1. Start with open-ended questions or “no-one-right-answer” questions. These types of questions help funnel people’s minds from their day filled with work, home, kids, and craziness into the discussion. These questions will…